Life As We Know IT
This blog is designed to discuss ideas between the Shirley Family and friends. Ideas dealing with all aspects of Life are welcome.
Saturday, April 29, 2006
Wednesday, April 26, 2006
Cyst Removal
Well said...
Monday, April 24, 2006
They just don't get it...
I am under the impression that the guys running the show in Washington just don't get it. They keep thinking that the oil companies are running up the oil profits on purpose. If that was the case, why didn't they do this when oil was 12$ a barrel only 4 years ago! Don't you think they would want to run up the prices then? The Exxon CEO retired in December and I like what he said. He basically said that Washington doesn't get it because they (and the general public) don't understand that the oil field runs in cycles (5-10-15-20-30 year cycles). We just happen to be in a cycle where there is simply too much demand and not enough supply.
The supply part is what people don't get. WE ARE RUNNING OUT! WE WILL RUN OUT! PERIOD! This is why every country from the US to China is trying to secure oil fields around the world (ie. Iraq, Nigeria, etc). Oil companies are not running the prices up...supply and demand are. India and China need more oil! Plus the US is thirsty. We will keep using oil and gas more and more each day and don't care about the consequences.
My point is this. It seems that with oil prices this high...polititians could easily pass a windfall tax because people are going to be paying 4$ per gallon of gas this summer. The people (who don't really understand why prices are so high) will want to somehow punish big oil. So they'll pass a windfall tax. If it is inevitable...I propose that we use ALL of the windfall tax for alternative energy research. Let's get more into wind research. Nuclear energy. Something right? BUT, what will end up happening is that they'll get their greedy hands on all that windfall tax and put it into pork for their buddies back home. They'll make up something to get them re-elected (since it is a re-election year).
Sad. It will be sad because every polititian will have to favor the windfall tax this summer because of high prices will be so high. AND if they don't favor it, they will have to explain to the angry public why come re-election campaigning and they won't want to do that. So, they'll eventually pass it. Take the money. And add to the deficit in a negative way.
So, get on the congressman website and propose that if a windfall tax is implemented...that we use all of it to research alternative energy so that we don't keep repeating our same mistakes we have done in the past. So that when our kids are our age...that they have a nice lifestyle (instead of being drafted to fight China for oil).
Here is an article of what I'm talking about: The Tax Man
Saturday, April 22, 2006
PAIN IN THE.....
The surgery with open healing -- In this procedure the cyst and sinuses are completely removed. The resulting wound is left open to heal. This is the slowest form of healing (8 weeks) but the one with the lowest rate of infection and recurrence (5-15%). During healing the wound must be cleaned out and re-packed with gauze at least twice daily.
Recovery time -- Approx 8 weeks. The first week after the surgery will be the worst and you really will need to be home resting during this time. Most doctors will advise that you can return to work after the first week. You will be advised not to drive for the first few days after surgery (nor will you want to anyway.) Some insurers will actually pay to have a home health nurse come and do your packing changes twice daily. Otherwise, it is possible to do packing changes yourself, but easier if you have a spouse/family member/significant other to do it for you. Excision with open healing is understood to be the surgical treatment with the best cure rate.
There is a lot of misinformation perpetuated by surgeons, doctors and even some nurses when it comes to wound healing. The advice in this chapter is taken directly from wound care specialist sources such as World Wide Wounds and Wounds.com. We will admit right up front that we have little faith in most doctors to give their patients proper wound care instructions, which is why Aftercare is the most comprehensive section in this web site http://www.pilonidal.org/aftercare.htm
Exercise-- The type of surgery and the size/depth of your wound will determine how quickly you return to exercise and sports activities. Some people report that they were back in the gym within two weeks, others waited two months. The most important thing is to listen to your body. Those youngest and healthiest will heal quickest, some teenage Pilonidal patients are back on the football field within a month after surgery. It is a personal decision that only you can make, knowing your body and your health. Heavy weightlifting and physical strain tears your muscle tissue, which the body then has to heal - it makes more sense to let the body focus on healing the surgical wound. Also, running and jumping involve using the gluteus muscles, this disturbs all that nice new tissue that's growing in the wound.
Cleaning -- Cleaning is one area that makes only minimal difference for closed incisions and a HUGE difference in open wounds. One of the cornerstones of open healing is frequent cleansing out of the wound bed. With the traditional gauze packing method it is critical to flush out the wound with water or saline and change the dressing at least twice a day until only the top 1/4" is left to heal. Doctors rcommend 2-3 times a day for the first month of healing. The best way to cleanse your wound is in the shower, using a hand held sprayer to gently flush out the inside. You do not need to use any kind of soap inside the wound.
***What you should NOT use is alcohol or Hydrogen Peroxide****
Diet -- A high protein diet is also recommended for optimal healing, I chose to go with 60 grams of protein a day during my healing period. I hate to sound like your mother, but -- eat your fruits & veggies! Good nutrition is the best thing you can do for yourself to make healing go as quickly as possible. Skip the drive through and head to the sandwich shop for lunch.... It's pretty simple: stay away from all things fried.
Problems During Healing--Most people have no problems healing, but the process can be a nightmare for some people. Below is a list of the primary reasons a wound isn't healing or is healing far too slow.
- The most common reason for delayed wound healing is poor nutritional habits or poor general health.
-Eat right and take vitamins. No Fast Food!
-RELAX! It has been proven that stress impairs your immune system and slows down healing.
-Avoid using antibiotic ointments (Neosporin, Bacitricin, etc.) These are proven to frequently cause allergic reactions and contact dermatis with regular use.
-Try doing sitz baths with Epson Salts in the water.
-Make sure you are getting at least 60 grams of high quality protein daily.
-Breathe. Deeply and slowly. Healing uses a lot of oxygen from the bloodstream. Try an exercise of doing 5 minutes of deep breathing, three times a day.
-Get some oxygen into the wound by spending 15 minutes, twice a day with the wound fully exposed to air (spread those cheeks apart if you have to!)
-Make sure you are changing your packing at least twice daily.
Thursday, April 20, 2006
PRAY FOR STEVE
I love you Steve. Hurry and get well. Godspeed...
P.S. You have to much to do to be down long.
CHOICES
You cannot manage yourself if you DO NOT manage your CHOICES...
MANAGE YOUR CHOICES AND YOU WILL MANAGE YOUR LIFE...
ANONOMOUS
Wednesday, April 19, 2006
Surgery time baby!
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Monday, April 17, 2006
The Joy of Expectation The Phone Calls
Also noted, there was rumor that two Americans were seen running around Belize in "speedos. Go figure.
I have always said that I never know what I am going to here when the phone rings. My children have never seized to amaze me. From Steve calling to say he was joining the Navy, John to Paraguay, Chris to Chicago and recently, Keri becoming a nurse in the Navy. You guys leave me speechless. Well, almost. You know you can't shut me up when it comes to talking about my children. And now Grandchildren! I love you all and am so very proud of you. The joy of expectation far exceeded itself when I became a mother. Hoorah to all of you! I await your phone calls.
Dazzling moments in time...

Paris, France -- Paris was a close second to Rome in great cities of Europe to see! We loved it! Two days really isn't enough time to give Paris justice. However, we maximized all the glitz Paris has to offer.
I was trying with all my might to take a cool picture of something in Paris to put on the blog. I took many pics of the Eiffel Tower with the full moon beside it, but they didn't come out too well. We took pictures of churches, Arc de Triomphe Etoile, bridges, Louvre, and Hotel Des Invalides. They were all beautiful, but somewhat normal and boring pictures. We wanted some creativity here!
So, the picture above was taken at night on the way to dinner by me. I took about three pics, but this one was perfect. Just goes to show you that you shouldn't let life pass you by.
The picture to the left is a picture another

captured on our first night in Paris by Delia. We were on the second platform of the Tower at the time. These two pictures were the best we came up with and I think capture a different perspective of Paris.
Bottom line: Everyone must visit Paris! Like I said before, Rome is the only place I have been to over here that I would consider better. The biggest surprise was the people. They were not as rude as I once believed. All were very nice. London has been the worst so far in this category. Rudest people I have ever been around and one of the worst places to visit that I have been to. Don't go to London!
The best part of Paris for me was visiting the Louvre and the Orsay. I had thought that the Louvre would be the better of the two, but we found the Orsay to be better works of art. The Louvre has the Mona Lisa. I can really appreciate how good it is now that I have seen it up close. The glow of Mona's skin is amazing up close. A very amazing painting. We saw Van Gough's, Degas, Monet's, Manet's, and my buddy Gustav's paintings. Paris is a great place for art!
Paris is a must see for all and I hope that one day all of you will get to visit this city. It is priceless and we had a great time!
Thursday, April 13, 2006
Attempted to "Pump up 'Da Volume"
Today I was on campus and someone was mowing. I was walking by and he stopped mowing because wind was blowing in my direction. I post this only because I was a little shocked. I thought that was very courteous. I had just come from getting a cup of coffee in the SU, where a very friendly person waited on me. The rest of my day was uneventful but filled with other such small and courteous gestures. I felt really good all day. I am not suggesting that my good days only stem from the actions of others, but a kind gesture never hurts. For me, it is a collection of small and relatively insignificant events that have a combined affect on my attitude.
I have decided to take tonight off. I finished a big assignment at about 4:00pm and played with Abraham for the evening. Now I am going to watch "What Dreams May Come." I haven't seen it since it came out, but I bought it recently. I remember loving it the first time, so we'll see. I really shouldn't take the night off b/c I have a ton to do, but I figure this may re-charge me for the long haul lined up over the weekend.
Quote for Today: The Fruit of Service is Peace (Mother Teresa)
Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Cardinals new stadium
St. Louis, MO -- The Cards opened their new stadium. It looks great! Wish I could have been there for the opening game. Best fans around! Check out new stadium review/opening game here New Stadium!
Monday, April 10, 2006
A new citizen is born
I have never voted. Yes, I know, I know. I just didn’t vote because I didn’t understand how government works. I did not want to vote just for the sake of voting. It takes a little initiative from a citizen. We have the right to vote and should exercise this by taking a little time to learn about candidates and political parties. This is why I will be voting in the election this year and from now on. Without my vote, I can only complain.
My major complaint is the obsurdity of illegal immigrants having the ability to help implement policy. I mean I am an actual legal citizen and I’m not doing crap (NOTE: can also substitute “ain’t doin’ shit” or “he lazy-ass”). I have the ability to help implement policy and have taken no real action. This is going to change. It must change. US citizens must help those elected implement policy.
There is one interesting study that is going to come into play on May 1st that I will find interesting. We all should. Voter registration and citizenship education initiatives are set to begin in several states after a "Day Without An Immigrant" campaign planned for May 1, an event that asks immigrants nationwide to stay home from work and school, and refrain from buying U.S. products. This should really put on a fireworks show.
Obviously if this were an easy problem, it would have been fixed already. It is very complex problem and political suicide for some (depending on location). However, there are smart men and women out there (contrary to popular belief). The problem I have with the whole issue is that it should be addressed and fixed by citizens of the US and not citizens of other countries (and oil doesn’t count…it’s a resource not a country).
We must drive the direction of this country. We must keep rooted American values alive. We must become actively involved in government. We must vote. We the people must appoint leaders that represent the citizens. Otherwise, we are lost.
So what in the world am I trying to say here? Basically, I don’t want to just give facts anymore. I don’t want to just inform people about what I know. I want to give my opinion. I want to speak. I want to do what I should have been doing all along: be a proud-and-active US citizen.
The circle of life

Stuttgart, Germany -- When lost, should you turn left? Right? Straight? How about turning around and going backwards? Sometimes you have to take two steps back to take the 'right' step forward.
I remember riding in the car with Grandpa when I was little and he told me something I will never forget. He said, "Always take a different path to a common destination to spice up your daily travel...you just may see something new you didn't see before." Wise words Grandpa.
So, as you roam through your busy lives, I urge that perhaps each of you take that right instead of left. Go straight instead. Maybe even take a few steps back, pause to actually think, and go forward. Take a little time to notice something about your day that may make you smile. The circle of life doesn't just have to be that... a circle.
Saturday, April 08, 2006
No More Delay . . .
Thoughts?
Tuesday, April 04, 2006
Opening Day

US Baseball Country --Opening Day brought all kinds of excitement for the season ahead. How about them Yanks? What a spanking they dished out to Oakland (15-2)! How about my Cards and Pujols? Wins and bombs! Rollins kept his hit streak alive. And people through syringes and booed Bonds. That one is a tough one. Tough for someone 48 hrs from the record. Still innocent until proven guilty, but from the looks at the pictures of his evolution...hard to say he didn't use steroids.
I began to look at some of the trades that were made in the offseason and some teams came out better off than last year. Yanks get Damon. White Sox get Thome (who homered in his debut!). Braves get Renteria. Mets get Nady, Wagner, and LaDuca. All kinds of new blood out there.
So, with all this new blood out there, who will come out ahead in the end? I predict that my Cards will spank the Yanks in the World Series this year. Yep Sean, Yanks are goin' down!
How about playoff teams?
The Braves will be there. These guys lost Mizzoni (pitching Coach) and still look very strong. Look at who they have lost in years past (Maddox, Sheffield, Glavine, etc) and they still are there every year! Bobby Cox is a genius!
How about the returning champs? Jim Thome looks good and if he can stay healthy, we are still in business. Possible repeat could happen, but unlikely. I still see them in the playoffs at year's end though.
business! They got a relief pitcher and other transactions. They look very strong and will be playoff bound at year's end as well. Look for them to sneak in and do what the White Sox did last year. Monday, April 03, 2006
Pump Up Da' Volume...(..Dance...Dance)
American Roots
There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn't an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag, and this excludes the red flag, which symbolizes all wars against liberty and civilization, just as much as it excludes any foreign flag of a nation to which we are hostile...We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language...and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people."
--Theodore Roosevelt, 1919
Good Book Here!
Life's New Upgrades

Cyberspace -- April brings new upgrades to the blog! I have been trying to get this blog up-and-running like a well-oiled machine. So, I have been adding some upgrades to spice this blog up. I think you will find them usefull.
Upgrade #1: Audioblogger. This enables you to call a phone number from anywhere in the world and it will post what you say onto the blog. I did not give instructions on how to do this however, because no one asked. If interested...let me know and I can post how to do it.
Upgrade #2: I have enabled the Links section on our menu bar. I have added some of my favorate links. So, just click away. NOTE: If you send me some of your favorate links you would like on there I can put them on the blog. That way you can save this blog as your homepage and just be able to link to your other sites!
Upgrade #3: I put a Blog section on there so that you can link to other blogs if you like. Again, let me know of any blogs that you may visit regularly or like and I can put them on there. I put a few on there that are either popular, or ones that I like. FYI, there is a sports blog on there that I have been accepted to write for. They want me to provide a youth/military sports perspective from here in Europe. I will let everyone know when my first published blog gets on there. It should be fun.
So, get positive, get creative, get funny, get active. The sky is the limit on this thing, so let's make the best of it. Feedback is appreciated. As Chris would say, "Peace Out".
WWE
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